Anyone that knows me probably knows I tend to be impatient, sometimes pessimistic, and that I hate getting stuck behind slow vehicles.
This morning I got stuck behind a pickup pulling a fertilizer tank. At first it annoyed me because the driver was being so slow. I watched the liquid fertilizer slosh around inside the tank of opaque plastic, tapped my hand against the steering wheel, took a swig of my cappuccino, and wondered if I should risk passing him.
Then I realized, no, I shouldn't. I was a mile from my house, not in any hurry, and that it was good for me to wind up creeping along behind this farmer.
It's a mind-game I make myself play sometimes. Try to find the good points inside of the frustrating, annoying, things that come up, in hopes that it will help me regain a sense of optimism.
Anyway, the good that I discovered while out-and-about this morning...
- Going beneath the speed limit meant that the farmer was being careful. He didn't want to have a wreck and spill potentially flammable material all over the road/catch his vehicle or other vehicles on fire.
- His being on the road in the first place meant our nation's farmers are growing the crops that help keep this country stable and fed.
- I was being forced to be patient.
I kept going...
- The ache in my neck meant my chiropractor is doing her job in correcting my spine.
- The money spent at the appointment meant that life isn't meant to be a free ride, that hard work and paying people what their skills are worth is good.
- Taking a slight detour due to traffic near a poorly-placed gas station exit meant that the economy, while depressed, is still chugging along, and that people have jobs to go to and business to conduct.
- The cappuccino in my hand, the gas in my car, and the phone in my pocket meant I am capable of earning money, holding down a job, and paying a number of my own expenses.
I felt a lot better after realizing those things. And...by that time, I was home.
What good can you find in the next inconvenience that comes your way?